Members MikeWatson1 Posted February 12, 2022 Members Share Posted February 12, 2022 I'd like to get some biblical advice. I have been through divorce, with my wife having left me, and I got her to do the divorce from her end without me in acting it. I'd like to know whether I'd be free to find and marry someone else. From looking at the bible, I'd heard that I'd have to wait till she committed adultery or remarried before I could. Yea so I'm a bit confused about it. Your thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SureWord Posted February 12, 2022 Members Share Posted February 12, 2022 Why would you want to be remarried? Enjoy your freedom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BrotherTony Posted February 12, 2022 Members Share Posted February 12, 2022 Is your ex a Christian? Did she have any justification for leaving? If she was/is an unbeliever, you're under no obligation to wait to remarry. If you were part of the problem in her wanting a divorce or obtaining one, then you need to try for a reconciliation. If she's not inclined to remarry, you might be in for a long wait to remarry. Still, once a divorce has occured, I don't believe you're under any obligation to wait to remarry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MikeWatson1 Posted April 2, 2022 Author Members Share Posted April 2, 2022 On 2/13/2022 at 2:40 AM, BrotherTony said: Is your ex a Christian? Did she have any justification for leaving? If she was/is an unbeliever, you're under no obligation to wait to remarry. If you were part of the problem in her wanting a divorce or obtaining one, then you need to try for a reconciliation. If she's not inclined to remarry, you might be in for a long wait to remarry. Still, once a divorce has occured, I don't believe you're under any obligation to wait to remarry. Yeah, I tried for reconciliation, but she didn't want a bar of it. I was part of the problem in being a bit aloof and struggling to change my living habits from being single for a long time. She claims to be christian, but she did have things that make me now wonder if she was saved. During the time I was looking at her through rose coloured spectacles and it is in my nature not to 'rock the boat'.. being a peace loving and compliant person. I thought she was saved because of some things she believed about Jesus. She did though find it hard to understand and read scripture, had different partners before me and was an alcoholic. But yeah.. I'm on the same line of thinking of having to wait for her to remarry or sleep with another before I could pursue anyone. Thing though is.. in today's world.. maybe it is better I don't. I can't imagine being able to raise kids well in this society as it is today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Hugh_Flower Posted April 2, 2022 Members Share Posted April 2, 2022 Your free to remarry bro. There is liberty in Christ All things are lawful for me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but all things edify not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jerry Posted April 3, 2022 Members Share Posted April 3, 2022 (edited) The best passage to look at is 1 Corinthians 7. And no, the Bible does not say you are automatically free to remarry. The verse posted above does not apply in this issue. The Bible teaches that you cannot remarry until your spouse dies or you are guilty of committing adultery. Edited April 3, 2022 by Jerry 1Timothy115 and MikeWatson1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MikeWatson1 Posted April 3, 2022 Author Members Share Posted April 3, 2022 Thanks for your input everyone. I'll go back to me bible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Hugh_Flower Posted April 5, 2022 Members Share Posted April 5, 2022 1Ti 4:2 Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron; 1Ti 4:3 Forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth. 1Ti 4:4 For every creature of God is good, and nothing to be refused, if it be received with thanksgiving: 1Ti 4:5 For it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jerry Posted April 5, 2022 Members Share Posted April 5, 2022 Context. This is talking about false teachers who reject the truth and those in the end times who have itching ears. All the New Testament is for believers. 1 Corinthians 7 is the primary NT passage dealing with marriage and remarriage (and forbidding to marry is not dealing with remarriage, but marriage in the first place). God's Word does not contradict itself. If you have a conflict between your views and the Bible, the Bible is right. We also need to rightly divide the Word of God and put all passages dealing with the same principle or doctrine side by side and see how they fit together - see if any of it is fulfilled or done away with in the NT - though in this case you are dealing with two NT passages, therefore one is not done away with. Context is essential. Pastor Scott Markle and 1Timothy115 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 1Timothy115 Posted April 5, 2022 Members Share Posted April 5, 2022 For the most part 1 Tim. 4:3-5 past the comma in 4:3 is speaking in context about eating and has nothing to do with marriage or remarriage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jerry Posted April 6, 2022 Members Share Posted April 6, 2022 23 hours ago, Hugh_Flower said: 1Ti 4:3 Forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth. I would also add that I believe the primary application of this verse today is to cults and false religions, such as Catholicism and Seventh Day Adventists that teach you can't marry (for the priests and nuns) and that we are not to eat meats or certain meats. 1Timothy115 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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