Is a relationship worth it?

[fallingangel1]

I'm in a relationship with a acceptingly beautiful girl but there's bagage. It seems she does think it's okay to be rude to me. She's always yelling at me and being just plain rude. We don't have fun like we use to and now she's even attempted to break up with me because I missed her call. It's kind of like she's trying to scare me into dating her. I'm not a tough guy so it's a bit of a toughy for me. II'm trying hard to love her but it's like she's always saying rude stuff to me. I keep telling myself man up and tell her the truth but that part of me is also alittle timid about doing that. What should I do?

[deafnva77]

tell her to straighten up or you will break up with her


and the fact that she saying she will break up with you for missing one call usually mean she is thinking about it anyway , that she wants you do everything her way or highway. She is not interested in the relationship, just control.

[Pastorj]

Run

[pneu-engine]

Run

...for your life!!!!


Her body language is screaming dissatisfaction, displeasure, dislike (for herself, for you, for God, for everything in general) and inward dstrust.

If you think this is bad just imagine what it would be like if you were married. IYIYIYIYIYI

I hope you have not crossed the line into physical things of the flesh. If you have, HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BOY!!!!!!!

It is for this very reason and many others like it that the Bible clearly teaches courtship that leads to marriage, not dating and playing the field in relationships outside marriage.

The bottom line here is you need to run and run hard (for your very life).

[John81]

I agree, get away from her and don't look back. Nothing but trouble and heartache can come from a relationship with someone like that.

[Angelmiss49]

No absolutely not.

[Guest Guest]

Remove yourself!First go thru and explain the issues you have with her very clearly if you've been seeing one another for awhile. Put it in writing instead if that doesn't feel right. Pray for her but don't see her! pixiedust

[PastorHarrison]

Is she a born again fundamental independent Baptist? Does she love the lord and is she somehow indicating to you that she wants a relationship thats Christ centered or "her" centered? If both answers are prayerfully "yes" - pray and talk her about where she is and where you are. If either answer is "no" you're trying to salvage an unequal yoke.