Did I do the Right Thing?

[trc123]

Wow, you should really take a break from this and her. You are definitely obsessed.

Seriously young man; please stop communicating with this young lady and talk with your Pastor......you have a very serious problem that you are in danger of allowing over take you.

Please seek some competent help!

[Cototheburn]

I try, I try getting Bible, I try talking, but my heart will not rest, it burns, it hurts.... just pain is all I feel. I aint one of those type to do drugs or kill myself if that is what your thinking, but I am trying to find something to do that is the right thing to do, anything will work, its I am so tired of giving myself up, that I........ dont know what to do. I dont know what went wrong. I have so many friends trying to help me. Every one believes what I did right, every Pastors believes me, but why is my hearts so tight on this, is what is said true, am I more emotional and I am blind of the truth myself? Have I put things aside just for her safetly that I have put myself at risk. Maybe it is I that needs more pray then her. Just something, anything. Is this pain trying to teach me something. I never wanted this to happen. But its time for me to move on, even thought I dont want some one fall in sin and complete ruin their life, and I feel like I am part of the blame.

[trc123]

I understand your heart is burning and aches. I understand you are confused and wondering what went wrong. I'm sure you have a great deal of emotion for this young woman and that you care for her greatly.

In reading your text message exchanges; I still believe you are indeed obsessed and in need of competent help from someone a bit older, wiser and stable. Your emotions are all a jumble and not stable..................

Please, please, please seek help. Please stop harassing the young women and go to your Pastor or other older spiritual man! Please do it now.

[Cototheburn]

I am, talking to 3 Christians right now, and a few on here. I am trying to step down, and I aint too crazy about her, not like you want to think, I know that much, but I am very worried about other people's souls, I am very worried about that. I am trying to step down, and I am trying to talk to my Pastors, I think because its some things that the others are saying I dont want to hear right now, but I know in my heart its true, but I am hurting so badly, I dont want to face the truth, but I know it is the truth. Dont worry about me, also long as I keep talking to people, I need encouragement and pray, that is all I need. I just wish none of this had to happen. That is something I am beating myself up for (not phyiscal). But I have to say this, it is my fault for lowwing my guard down, and now I am paying the price for it.

[deafnva77]

I suggest you should step away too. In fact, if I was her, I would freak out and probably would never talk to you again. Back out before you lose your friendship.

When I read your letter, you seem like you writing it emotionally.

which I know this situation hurts.


But Jealousy is emotional feeling that just don't make sense. It can make you compare yourself to another guy and don't understand why a girl would date someone like him. Many guys who are jealous don't understand what a girl see in the guy who she is dating.

BTW, you should write one more letter to tell her you are sorry and that you will back off but you will be there for her whenever she need someone to talk to. that's all

[Cototheburn]

I sent one more;

"This is my last reply, and then I am finish..... I just want to say... I am sorry, I mean that from my heart. I been talking to alot of Christians in the last 2 hours, not giving your name. I am sorry it turned out like this, I pray that we did had a good friendhship to say the less. But I will back off, this is your life, I just wanted to help you make good choices. But....... I will be here when you need me, even though you say you never want me back in your life, I will still be here."


I truly never wanted this to happen. But I have to move on, and away from her. Even Bible says Chirstians and worldly people shouldnt mix. But now..... what next, all I can think of is go to work in a few minutes, then go to church Sunday, and go to bed in between each day.