Yes, as it is, as it has been, as has been noted, is way way way more than sad....
Just to see what would come up for illumination, I searched online simple:
'a good church helps take care ... ... '
and this first item quoted that came up is fairly illustrative of how far from Scripture most are (including the source quoted, btw) :
"What is the role of churches in caring for the aging population?
February 23, 2022 - As a church we must have a great deal of respect for the aging generation, as we are commanded by God in Leviticus 19:32 stating, “Stand up in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly and revere your God. I am the LORD” (NIV). We are also called to care for widows and orphans, help the weak, honor our parents, and care for our families..."
Even more sad, or worse, is that most think that the condition of the church they are in, that is not fulfilling God's Own Word, is okay and nothing can be done to fix it, or even worse that nothing should be done to fix it - no one it seems knows how to fulfill Ephesians et al about training the believers to do what is right - after all, who cares ? Not enough, it seems.