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      Closed Communion
      James Foley
       
      I Corinthians 11:17-34: "Now in this that I declare unto you I praise you not, that ye come together not for the better, but for the worse. For first of all, when ye come together in the church, I hear that there be divisions among you; and I partly believe it. For there must be also heresies among you, that they which are approved may be made manifest among you. When ye come together therefore into one place, this is not to eat the Lord's Supper. For in eating every one taketh before other his own supper: and one is hungry, and another is drunken. What? have ye not houses to eat and to drink in? or despise ye the church of God, and shame them that have not? What shall I say to you? shall I praise you in this? I praise you not. For I have received of the Lord that which also I delivered unto you, That the Lord Jesus the same night in which he was betrayed took bread: And when he had given thanks, he brake it, and said, Take, eat: this is my body, which is broken for you: this do in remembrance of me. After the same manner also he took the cup, when he had supped, saying, This cup is the new testament in my blood: this do ye, as oft as ye drink it, in remembrance of me. For as often as ye eat this bread, and drink this cup, ye do show the Lord's death till he come. Wherefore whosoever shall eat this bread, and drink this cup of the Lord, unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord. But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of that cup. For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord's body. For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep. For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged. But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world. Wherefore, my brethren, when ye come together to eat, tarry one for another. And if any man hunger, let him eat at home; that ye come not together unto condemnation. And the rest will I set in order when I come."

      INTRODUCTION

      Historic Baptists, true Baptists, have believed in and still believe in closed communion. Baptists impose upon themselves the same restrictions that they impose on others concerning the Lord’s Supper. Baptists have always insisted that it is the Lord’s Table, not theirs; and He alone has the right to say who shall sit at His table. No amount of so called brotherly love, or ecumenical spirit, should cause us to invite to His table those who have not complied with the requirements laid down plainly in His inspired Word. With respect to Bible doctrines we must always use the scripture as our guide and practice. For Baptists, two of the most important doctrines are Baptism and The Lord’s Supper. These are the only two doctrines we recognize as Church Ordinances. The Bible is very clear in teaching how these doctrines are to be practiced and by whom.

      We only have two ordinances that we must never compromise or we risk our very existence, they are Baptism and The Lord’s Supper.

      The moment we deviate from the precise method God has prescribed we have started down the slippery slope of error. True Baptists have held fast to the original doctrine of The Lord’s Supper from the time of Christ and the Apostles.

      Unfortunately, in this day of what the Bible describes as the age of luke warmness, Baptists are becoming careless in regard to strictly following the pattern laid out for us in Scripture. Many of our Bible colleges are graduating otherwise sincere, Godly and dedicated pastors and teachers who have not been taught the very strict, biblical requirements that surround the Lord’s Supper. Any Bible college that neglects to teach its students the differences surrounding Closed Communion, Close Communion and Open Communion is not simply short changing its students; it is also not equipping their students to carry on sound Bible traditions. The result is men of God and churches that fall into error. And as we will see, this is serious error.

      Should we as Baptists ignore the restrictions made by our Lord and Master? NO! When we hold to the restrictions placed upon the Lord’s Supper by our Master, we are defending the "faith which was once delivered to the saints" Jude 3.

      The Lord’s Supper is rigidly restricted and I will show this in the following facts:

      IT IS RESTRICTED AS TO PLACE

      A. I Corinthians 11:18 says, "When ye come together in the church." This does not mean the church building; they had none. In other words, when the church assembles. The supper is to be observed by the church, in church capacity. Again this does not mean the church house. Ekklesia, the Greek word for church, means assembly. "When ye come together in the church," is when the church assembles.

      B. When we say church we mean an assembly of properly baptized believers. Acts 2:41-42: "Then they that gladly received his word were baptized: and the same day there were added unto them about three thousand souls. And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers."

      The church is made up of saved people who are baptized by immersion. In the Bible, belief precedes baptism. That’s the Bible way.

      Acts 8:12-13, "But when they believed Philip preaching the things concerning the kingdom of God, and the name of Jesus Christ, they were baptized, both men and women. Then Simon himself believed also: and when he was baptized, he continued with Philip, and wondered, beholding the miracles and signs which were done."

      When we say properly baptized, we mean immersed. No unbeliever should take the Lord’s supper, and no non-immersed believer should take the supper. Those who are sprinkled are not baptized and cannot receive the supper. The Greek word for baptize is baptizo, and it always means to immerse.

      "In every case where communion is referred to, or where it may possibly have been administered, the believers had been baptized Acts 2:42; 8:12; 8:38; 10:47; 6:14-15; 18:8; 20:7. Baptism comes before communion, just as repentance and faith precede baptism".

      C. The Lord’s Supper is for baptized believers in church capacity: "When ye come together in the church," again not a building, but the assembly of the properly baptized believers.

      D. The fact that the Lord’s Supper is a church ordinance, to be observed in church capacity, is pointed out by the fact that it is for those who have been immersed and added to the fellowship of the church.

      E. The Lord’s Supper is never spoken of in connection with individuals. When it is referred to, it is only referred to in reference to baptized believers in local church capacity I Cor. 11:20-26).

      I want to quote Dr. W.W. Hamilton,

      "The individual administration of the ordinance has no Bible warrant and is a relic of Romanism. The Lord’s Supper is a church ordinance, and anything which goes beyond or comes short of this fails for want of scriptural example or command".

      “The practice of taking a little communion kit to hospitals, nursing homes, etc. is unscriptural and does not follow the scriptural example.”

      IT IS RESTRICTED TO A UNITED CHURCH

      A. The Bible in I Cor. 11:18 is very strong in condemning divisions around the Lord’s table. For first of all, when ye come together in the church, I hear that there be divisions among you; and I partly believe it.
      19 For there must be also heresies among you, that they which are approved may be made manifest among you.
      20 When ye come together therefore into one place, this is not to eat the Lord's supper.

      There were no less than four divisions in the Corinthian church.
      I Cor. 1:12: "Now this I say, that every one of you saith, I am of Paul; and I of Apollos; and I of Cephas; and I of Christ."

      Because of these divisions, it was impossible for them to scripturally eat the Lord’s Supper. Division in the local church is reason to hold off observing the Lord’s Supper. But there are also other reasons to forego taking the Lord’s Supper. If there is gross sin in the membership we do not take it. Here is scriptural evidence for this: 1Co 5:7 Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our Passover is sacrificed for us:
      8 Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth. 9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:
      10 Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world. 11 But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.

      B. At this point, I want to ask these questions: Are there not doctrinal divisions among the many denominations? Is it not our doctrinal differences that cause us to be separate religious bodies?

      IT IS RESTRICTED BY DOCTRINE

      A. Those in the early church at Jerusalem who partook "continued stedfastly in the apostles’ doctrine" Acts 2:42. And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.

      B. Those that do not hold to apostolic truth are not to partake. This means there is to be discipline in the local body. How can you discipline those who do not belong to the local body? You can’t. The clear command of scripture is to withdraw fellowship from those who are not doctrinally sound.

      II Thes 3:6: "Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us."
      Rom. 16:17: "Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them."
      To commune together means to have the same doctrine.
      II Thes. 2:15: "Therefore, brethren, stand fast, and hold the traditions which ye have been taught, whether by word, or our epistle."
      II John 10-11: "If there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine, receive him not into your house, neither bid him God speed: For he that biddeth him God speed is partaker of his evil deeds."

      C. Some Baptists in our day have watered down this doctrine by practicing what they call “Close Communion.” By this they mean that they believe that members of another Baptist church may take communion with us because they are of the same beliefs. Once again, this is unscriptural.

      The welcome to the Lord's Table should not be extended beyond the discipline of the local church. When we take the Lord’s Supper there is supposed to be no gross sin among us and no divisions among us. We have no idea of the spiritual condition of another church’s members. If there is sin or division in the case of this other church’s members, we have no way of knowing it. We cannot discipline them because they are not members of our church. This is why we practice “Closed” communion, meaning it is restricted solely to our church membership. 
      So then, in closing I would like to reiterate the three different ideas concerning the Lord’s Supper and who is to take it. 
      Closed Communion = Only members of a single local church. 
      Close Communion = Members of like faith and order may partake. 
      Open Communion = If you claim to be a Christian, or simply attending the service, you may partake. 
      It is no small thing to attempt to change that which was implemented by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. 
      Mt. 28:20 Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen. 
      Many of our Baptist churches have a real need to consider the gravity of the act of observing The Lord’s Supper. It is not a light thing that is to be taken casually or without regard to the spiritual condition of ourselves or our church.
      1Co. 11:27 Wherefore whosoever shall eat this bread, and drink this cup of the Lord, unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord.

       28 But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of that cup.

       29 For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord's body.

       30 For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.

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I'm requesting prayer for me and my daughter's relationship. She moved out last March/April in with my mom. Absolutely no respect for me. She turned 18 in February. She acts like she hates me lately. My heart is breaking on a daily basis. Sometimes I feel like I'm dying of a broken heart. Any dialogue with her ends up with us fighting. She leaves for college next month and I've been praying she'll have a Christian roommate. She was saved at age 11 but hasn't attended church since I started attending IFB. I've been crying for hours last few days after trying to talk to her. It really feels like she hates me.

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:icon_pray: Praying for you. My wife's sister did the same thing. Gone the day she turned 18. Got married to some guy in the air force and moved to Texas, Arizona, SC before finally moving back home. After a while she finally started coming back around. Now we all meet every Friday night and have supper together. She'll come back around. Be patient.

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Miss Daisy,

 

I'm sorry for the pain and heartache you are going through. As tough as it may be, sometimes time apart is helpful. If your daughter has given place to the devil then the only answer is spiritual which means much prayer.

 

It may actually help if you two are apart and if you don't communicate much for awhile. So often in cases like this our closeness (family) to the person makes it that much harder to keep our flesh out of the way. Time apart and limited communication may help to keep the flesh from inflaming things while we give ourselves to prayer, trusting in God to deal with this in a way only He can.

 

Our oldest son moved to Florida the day he turned 18. That was about 2 1/2 years ago. For some time after that when we would talk by phone the "buttons" would be pushed and by the time the phone call ended everyone was wishing the phone call had never taken place. A few months ago he called and we talked without any "buttons" getting pushed. There was still a measure of tension or something there, but after over two years we finally managed a simple, civil phone call.

 

Our oldest son still wants to enjoy the pleasures of the world rather than live for Christ but we are hopeful that prayers and his Christian upbringing will be used of God in some way to bring him into God's will.

 

As difficult as it is, we have to realize our children are now adults and responsible before man and God for their own actions. At times such as this that overused and rather trite saying of "let go and let God" may actually be appropriate. We can't make their decisions for them, we can't make them do what is right and best, so it's better for us to step aside, commit them to the Lord and be in diligent, fervent, consistent prayer for them.

 

Miss Daisy, I pray the Lord will grant you strength, comfort, wisdom and peace. I pray the Lord will do a work in your daughters heart, mind and life to turn her to Him and to you. May the Lord help each of you as needed and restore your relationship in accord with God's perfect timing.

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Miss Daisy,

 

I'm sorry for the pain and heartache you are going through. As tough as it may be, sometimes time apart is helpful. If your daughter has given place to the devil then the only answer is spiritual which means much prayer.

 

It may actually help if you two are apart and if you don't communicate much for awhile. (Great Advice; Keep Praying)  So often in cases like this our closeness (family) to the person makes it that much harder to keep our flesh out of the way. Time apart and limited communication may help to keep the flesh from inflaming things while we give ourselves to prayer, trusting in God to deal with this in a way only He can.

 

Our oldest son moved to Florida the day he turned 18. That was about 2 1/2 years ago. For some time after that when we would talk by phone the "buttons" would be pushed and by the time the phone call ended everyone was wishing the phone call had never taken place. A few months ago he called and we talked without any "buttons" getting pushed. There was still a measure of tension or something there, but after over two years we finally managed a simple, civil phone call.

 

Our oldest son still wants to enjoy the pleasures of the world rather than live for Christ but we are hopeful that prayers and his Christian upbringing will be used of God in some way to bring him into God's will.

 

As difficult as it is, we have to realize our children are now adults and responsible before man and God for their own actions. At times such as this that overused and rather trite saying of "let go and let God" may actually be appropriate. We can't make their decisions for them, we can't make them do what is right and best, so it's better for us to step aside, commit them to the Lord and be in diligent, fervent, consistent prayer for them.

 

Miss Daisy, I pray the Lord will grant you strength, comfort, wisdom and peace. I pray the Lord will do a work in your daughters heart, mind and life to turn her to Him and to you. May the Lord help each of you as needed and restore your relationship in accord with God's perfect timing.

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I'm so sorry, Miss Daisy. Very little in life can cause us pain like our children and their troubles, trials, and choices.  I would second John's post, and add a suggestion.

 

When your daughter goes to college, send her cards once in a while, maybe twice a month, with just a little note about how you love her, miss her, and are praying for her.  That's all. No preaching, no arguing. Just your love for her.  The Holy Spirit will work on her as she matures emotionally.

 

"Casting all your care on Him, for He careth for you."

 

Praying...

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I'm requesting prayer for me and my daughter's relationship. She moved out last March/April in with my mom. Absolutely no respect for me. She turned 18 in February. She acts like she hates me lately. My heart is breaking on a daily basis. Sometimes I feel like I'm dying of a broken heart. Any dialogue with her ends up with us fighting. She leaves for college next month and I've been praying she'll have a Christian roommate. She was saved at age 11 but hasn't attended church since I started attending IFB. I've been crying for hours last few days after trying to talk to her. It really feels like she hates me.

 

If I could have a first name for your daughter I would appreciate that. I have added your daughter to my daily prayer list.

 

Our oldest son moved to Florida the day he turned 18. That was about 2 1/2 years ago. For some time after that when we would talk by phone the "buttons" would be pushed and by the time the phone call ended everyone was wishing the phone call had never taken place. A few months ago he called and we talked without any "buttons" getting pushed. There was still a measure of tension or something there, but after over two years we finally managed a simple, civil phone call.

 

Our oldest son still wants to enjoy the pleasures of the world rather than live for Christ but we are hopeful that prayers and his Christian upbringing will be used of God in some way to bring him into God's will.

 

John, I've continued to pray for your son since "11/15/11" I look forward to the day this prodigal comes home to you. Could I have a first name for him?

 

I understand the strained conversations and our attempts to sound upbeat with our lost children, I have my own, Jessica. I've recently changed my daily prayer asking God to do whatever it takes in accordance with His will to save her.

 

This was my prayer for my oldest son; just this past Memorial Day I was blessed to hear him preach the morning message at my local church. God does answer these prayers but, be prepared for the power of God to do terrible and wonderful things when you ask "whatever it takes."

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Miss Daisy, as of today I'm estranged from my sister, AGAIN. I believe Jesus wanted me to stand up for our elderly mother. My sister can't get over her childhood. She's now 43 years old, and our dad has been dead for 7 years. She used to blame him all the time but now that's he's dead she blames Ma for not leaving him. Dad never beat her but he had an awful tongue. I was talked to much worse than her and thrown around into the walls some but God took loads and loads of the hate from me. I was dad's care giver when he died. I end up loving him very much and he loved me the best he could. 

 

She's the most liberal Methodist you will ever meet. Its gotten so bad she no longer knows who she is praying to. Any god will do. She don't know if there's a heaven or hell. I was telling her today how history is repeating itself, and she blew up on me. She said, "I'd rather be dead than be like dad". That's how big her hate is, only the real GOD can replace that hate with forgiveness. She's been seeing a mental health doctor for about 15 years so far the best he can do is limit her outbursts to every few months. He has her exercising her anger away plus the talking appointments. 

 

I know if she comes back to the old fashion God who never changes and follow His pathways all will be well. I'll be praying for your daughter and the other children on here, please say a prayer for Lori. She has a 10 year old son and I don't want her to pass the anger on to him. 

 

(A weird side note, my Jesus was using our Pastor to prepare me for this storm for over five months with great seamons. I had no he was building me up for these last three weeks. I can look back over them and my jaw hits the floor. Preachers keep preaching you are helping Jesus' sheep.)

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MountainChristian, thanks for the words of advice! Our parents sound a lot alike actually. I will pray for your sister and her son. I pray she doesn't have a temper at him.

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