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You seem to more interested in picking things apart in order to find an argument when none is being presented.

For now, I'll only take the time to point out that just because someone "feels" they are being treated second class, that doesn't mean that's the case. Many people take offense far too easily and that's on them.


John, The cut comes because of dislike for God's ways.
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The Bishop (pastor) must be the husband of one wife. Well, since his wife divorced him and her married another, he is the husband of one wife. Divorce and remarriage does not disqualify one from pastoring. Period.


So, I guess there is no way you could be wrong about this. There is absolutely no possible way that God, who hates divorce would possibly mean that no one who has been divorced in the past is qualified to be a Pastor.
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I think even if you take these verses out of context you can come with a better meaning:

1 Corinthians 7:27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.

Straight forward it says if you are loosed from a wife, seek not a wife.(period)

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1 Corinthians 7:28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.

This is starting a new thought about marrying. It's saying you can marry if you like (it's not talking about re-marrying). It's saying there is no law concerning marriage (that you should or shouldn't). It's not talking about the last verse and being loosed then remarrying. That has already been covered by "seek not a wife".

I think you have made your argument weaker by stating these verses.

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Here is a commentary from Barnes that goes the other way from my opinion that I thought was interesting:


The husband of one wife. This need not be understood as requiring that a bishop should be a married man, as Vigilantias, a presbyter in the church at Barcelona in the fourth century, supposed, however desirable, in general, it may be that a minister of the gospel should be married. But, while this interpretation is manifestly to be excluded as false, there has been much difference of opinion on the question whether the passage means that a minister should not have more than one wife at the same time, or whether it prohibits the marriage of a second wife after the death of the first. On this question the Notes of Bloomfield, Doddridge, and Macknight, may be consulted. That the former is the correct opinion, seems to me to be evident from the following considerations:

(1.) It is the most obvious meaning of the language, and it would doubtless be thus understood by those to whom it was addressed. At a time when polygamy was not uncommon, to say that a man should "have but one wife" would be naturally understood as prohibiting polygamy.

(2.) The marriage of a second wife, after the death of the first, is nowhere spoken of in the Scriptures as wrong. The marriage of a widow to a second husband is expressly declared to be proper, 1Co 7:39; and it is not unfair to infer from that permission that it is equally lawful and proper for a man to marry the second time. But if it is lawful for any man, it is right for a minister of the gospel. No reason can be assigned against such marriages in his case, which would not be equally valid in any other. Marriage is as honourable for a minister of the gospel as for any other man, (comp. Cmt. on Heb 13:4; and, as Doddridge has well remarked, "circumstances may be so adjusted that there may be as much reason for a second marriage as for the first, and as little inconvenience of any kind may attend it."

(3.) There was a special propriety in the prohibition, if understood as prohibiting polygamy. It is known that it was extensively practised, and was not regarded as unlawful. Yet one design of the gospel was to restore the marriage relation to its primitive condition; and though it might not have seemed absolutely necessary to require of every man who came into the church to divorce his wives, if he had more than one, yet, in order to fix a brand on this irregular practice, it might have been deemed desirable to require of the ministers of the gospel that they should have but one wife. Thus the practice of polygamy would gradually come to be regarded as dishonourable and improper, and the example and influence of the ministry would tend to introduce correct views in regard to the nature of this relation. One thing is clear from this passage, that the views of the Papists in regard to the celibacy of the clergy are directly at variance with the Bible. The declaration of Paul in Heb 13:4, is, that "marriage is honourable in all;" and here it is implied that it was proper that a minister should be married. If it were not, why did not Paul prohibit it altogether! Instead of saying that it was improper that a bishop should have more than one wife, why did he not say that it was improper that he should be married at all! Would not a Romanist say so now?

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So, I guess there is no way you could be wrong about this. There is absolutely no possible way that God, who hates divorce would possibly mean that no one who has been divorced in the past is qualified to be a Pastor.
There is not a single verse in the entire Bible that says a remarried man cannot pastor.
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There is not a single verse in the entire Bible that says a remarried man cannot pastor.


Some would say husband of one wife means you cannot divorce and remarry as God still considers you married to the other. I would say that verse in 1 Timothy could be that single verse.
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We must examine what constitutes marriage in God’s eyes. Must a couple stand in a church and have a ceremony performed by an ordained minister? If so, what denomination does God accept? Does God recognize the marriage of a Baptist couple if the wedding was performed by a Methodist minister? What if it was officiated by a female Methodist minister…is the wedding valid in God’s eyes? Suppose the wedding wasn’t performed by an ordained person at all? What if the couple was married by the Justice of the Peace…Does God recognize this marriage?

When we examine the scriptures it becomes clear what God identifies as marriage. Marriage takes place when a man and woman come together in an intimate relationship. Notice how Isaac became married to Rebekah: Genesis 24:67And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death. Paul makes it clear: I Corinthians 6:16What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.

Now, how many churches ask a pastoral candidate how many women he has been intimate with during his life? If we are to dig into one’s past, rather than examine his present, this must be asked. In fact, churches should begin questioning their current pastors about this immediately to ensure they are qualified. Of course I am being facetious here, but the principle applies.

Again, I feel the Bible is referencing a man’s current standing with God. Is he faithful to his wife as Christ is faithful to His? Just because a man only has one wedding ceremony under his belt does not mean he is always faithful to his wife. Also, is it reasonable to accept a man as pastor, who prior to salvation, molested children, murderer innocent people, yet has only been married once over a man who has been divorced? I realize God hates divorce, but does He hate it more than He hates other sins? Will God forgive murder and allow a man to pastor but forbid a man who has been divorced?

The question was raised how could a divorced pastor give sound advice to a struggling couple thinking about divorce? Well, how could a pastor who used to be an alcoholic give sound advice to someone struggling with alcohol? How can a pastor who was addicted to porn give Godly advice to someone addicted themselves? The answer for all three questions is simple -- Jesus.

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We could sit here and try to list a bunch of sins and see what "level" they might be but there are times when we need to take the Bible at face value and just have faith that God has reasons for certain things. Can our limited mind understand all of these things? No. So, while murder might be right up there or worse than divorce (in my human mind I would consider murder worse than divorce)...we have to believe God knows what he's talking about when he says husband of one wife.

And yes, Churches should ask about the past relationships (marriage/divorce) when looking for a new Pastor. Just as they should ask point blank if the Pastor is saved, try to get as much out of him as possible so you can make a good judgement of his past/character/etc.

I have no problems with others believing it's only someones current situation but I will not be a part of a Church where the Pastor has been divorced (among other things). I would say with this, we should err on the side of caution. There is a chance (no matter how hard headed we can be about it and believe that we cannot be wrong about this particular issue) that God is talking about the other side of which opinion we are on. I see the argument for both but if we err on the side of caution, we should hold the Pastor to the higher standard and that higher standard would be the husband of one wife throughout his entire life.

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If a man is not qualified to pastor because he has been divorced, is God worthy of our worship because He has also been divorced?

Isaiah 50:1 Thus saith the LORD, Where is the bill of your mother's divorcement, whom I have put away? or which of my creditors is it to whom I have sold you? Behold, for your iniquities have ye sold yourselves, and for your transgressions is your mother put away.

Jeremiah 3:8 And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.

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Are you really going to use that argument? A spiritual divorcement and spiritual marriage. Does it not seem God is trying to explain in earthly terms what He did? Come on, it's strawman.

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No, it's Bible. Divorce is divorce whether spiritual or literal. It is a putting away. I understand your position, I really do. I do not comdemn any for holding this position. Like I said, I have heard this all my life. But I became more concerned with what God says rather than what man says. I believe that if God meant divorce He would have had Paul use the word for divorce "apostasion". It appears, to me, that God is more concerned with how a man is living his life right now, in the present tense.

It seems hypocritical, to me, to tell a lost world that God will forgive all sins if they accept Jesus then turn around and hold a sin over a Christian brother's head if God has forgiven that sin and removed the consequences for that sin. But it has been nice discussing this with you. :)

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Very disappointed in some of your hateful responses Rick. Just ultimately deciding that blossom has already decided to look down upon divorced people, that's an extremely fleshly response to another Christian.


Hateful? That's pretty strong. I wonder how a divorced Christian would feel about her stating that they're a bad example and can't even teach a second grade Sunday school class? Who cares if it happened twenty-years ago and they didn't do anything wrong? I'm not being hateful; I'm being honest about what she's saying. I do regret if I came across like I was picking on Blossom, that's not my intention. She's saying the same thing that many other good people say, and I'm sure she's a good person and a good Christian who loves the Lord - it's just that what she's saying is wrong. I wasn't trying to be hateful; I didn't do any name calling. I'm just tired of people saying, "I don't look down on someone who's been divorced..." only to follow that up with list of things they aren't good enough to do.

Now that you've said my comments were hateful, are you going to be consistant and assign a label to Jerry for habitually telling people they're arguing with God and His Holy Scriptures when they disagree with what he thinks? Or he safe because he agrees with you?

I'm not defending people who have their house out of order or are recently going through divorce proceedings. I'm defending people who have recovered from something like that years and years ago in which they were biblically divorced and have been showing Christian fruit in thier lives for years (and there's plenty of people like that).


Some would say husband of one wife means you cannot divorce and remarry as God still considers you married to the other.


Jesus wouldn't. He told the woman at the well that she had several husbands in her life. Jesus didn't consider her still married to her first husband, he recognized several different marriages as being separate and individual. From what you're saying, God only sees one spouse - unless that spouse dies. That not what Jesus said here.

John 4:16-18, "Jesus saith unto her, Go, call thy husband, and come hither.
17The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Jesus said unto her, Thou hast well said, I have no husband:
18For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly."
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