I feel like this is not a place of love. Christians turn more people away from salvation by pointing fingers at each other and arguing about who has the correct interpretations of Gods words. Jesus invited the woman at the well to give him a drink of water. He was forgiving, he didn't tell her her belief in him was the wrong interpretation. He blessed her and told her to sin no more. He didn't say, here is what I mean by that. It was good enough that she believed he was the messiah.
Shame on you for bickering instead of walking in humility for the sake of humanity. No one knows what happens after we die. We do know Christ wants us to believe he is the Son of God and have faith in him. Peace.