I believe it is because of our oldest daughter. She went crazy, had a child out of wedlock, got tattooed all over and is living with a woman as lesbians. It's like she woke up one day at college (PCC) and threw off God and everything we taught her. Rather than practice separation, I believe my wife keeps in contact with her so she doesn't perish from all the fool decisions she's become expert at making. Her worldliness is infectious or as the bible says, a little leaven, leaveneth the whole lump!
My health hasn't allowed me to attend services regularly in years so my wife and other children (now adults) stopped going. With each hospital stay, their dress became less proper for a lady, replacing dresses and skirts for jeans and t-shirts and the 10 pm curfew went out the window. To their credit, they've each picked men that they will likely marry and not allowed any unworthy anywhere near them. One of the young men got saved at PCC last summer. I've not had the chance to talk about the things of God yet with the other.
I'm sorry to hear that, hospital stays are no fun. Thank you for the prayers and I will keep you in mine as well.