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  1. couple of questions if y'all don't mind

    ~what do y'all do for swimming?
    Even the most modest swimsuit around shows a lot of leg

    ~do y'all let your girls play w/ Polly Pockets, Barbies or other dolls? Some of them have dresses but a lot of them have pants or shorts. Do you just let them keep the outfits that are dresses?

    as far as covering up everything that you don't want "seen or touched", let me tell you, I'd slap the daylights out of some guy if he came up and touched my face! So should I cover my face as well?



    We swim either only with immediate family or separate swimming.

    I made the clothes for our Barbies. Solved a lot of issues there.
  2. After my 4th baby, I was dressing like the woman in the first pic Kevin posted. God really got on me about that. He didn't let me go until a)I started losing weight and B) I quit dressing like a frump and add some updates to my wardrobe.

    After I did those 2 things, the Lord began to help me in other areas.

    So, there you have it. I am not arguing MY preferences. I am arguing God's leading.

  3. Actually, yes she is. She is a former drug addict, drug dealer, alcoholic, stripper, and even prostitute. This was a result of her extremely troubled past. One day she attempted suicide by taking two bottles of muscle relaxers, but decided she wanted to live. She couldn't move, so she couldn't call for help, so she cried out to God in her heart and her life was spared.

    After she moved to this town she got involved in a ministry that mixes the principles of recovery with Biblical principles, and she was indoctrinated in any way. Basically, she had the same problem I did: a lack of discipleship.

    She was among them for about 3 years.


    I will be honest here, Kenny. It sounds like God physically saved your wife, but perhaps she is still spiritually dead. Did she ever confess that Christ died in her place and that she truly deserved the punishment of death that He took?
  4. No one is talking about frumpy or ugly clothing - but if you want to have Biblical standards for women's clothing' date=' that means not form fitting, but loose and flowing. That comes from the phrase "modest apparel." The Greek word for apparel is the one that means loose and flowing. Vine's is one lexicon that defines that word as such - I am not sure what other dictionaries or lexicons do though.[/quote']

    The dress I posted is not form-fitting. The jacket is not either. What it seems to boil down to with some of you is color choice and fabric patterns.

    Hmmmm...I guess my polka dot dress is out of the question for you all, even though it isn't form-fitting and it is well below the knee.

    Now, one of you brought up the covering of the thigh. That dress is not going to ride up past the knees when a woman is seated.

    It seems that much of what is being brought up here is personal taste as opposed to true modesty issues. I knew that when I posted that dress, there would be ways for you to find fault. I personally see nothing wrong with it and I am an uber-modest person.
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    This is in fashion. How is it immodest?

    Anything you put on today is fashion. It is either old-fashioned, retro, or current. Current fashion does not make it sin.

    Now, you may say that the skirt is a "bit too short" but would that not be a preference? Should you not add "for my taste/conviction" there?

    There are 2 ways of wearing that dress. One is with a modest demeanor/bearing. The other is with a carelessness. Which one truly makes the dress immodest? It is the behaviour.

    There are current styles that are overtly immodest. There are others that are not.
  6. Ok' date=' thanks for your opinions. Have a blessed day![/quote']

    Refusing to validate your accusation against me? You then are become the false accuser that 2 Timothy 3 warns against. You also sound very high-minded and proud of which those verses also warn about. (Please look up the meaning of the words in the concordance.)


    1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
    2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
    3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
    4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;


    So then, you are finished with our conversation.

    If you level any more false accusations against me without validating your claim, I will press the matter with the mods.
  7. Good Morning!


    Ahh See you are awake too. I hope you are having a great day thus far. I am not a liberal....LOL, but thank you anyway. My name is Bill, and you are? I think we need to be properly introduced, dont you agree? Oh I also have a few messenger services, feel free to add me, the screen name is the same on all. I have soo much to do today, but maybe I can tell you about it another time.

    Talk to you later, hopefully

    God bless






    Proverbs 20:3 It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling.




    And once again you refuse to answer the questions. But you glibly call me a fool by piously using a Bible verse that you believe fits me. The thing is, you have made accusations that you expect us to swallow without proof. It doesn't work that way, Bill. Christ always had proof. You have none.
  8. If you believe you cannot be decieved because you are a Christian. Then I am sorry to say satan has already deceived you and many like you. All through the scripture there are warnings about being decieved. According to your teaching and beliefs what Paul and the other Apostles and even Jesus warned about was in vain.

    1 Corinthians 3:18 Let no man deceive himself. If any man among you seemeth to be wise in this world, let him become a fool, that he may be wise.

    your type of teaching is considered circular logic. By the way I thought we were finished with going back and forth at one another? Give any troubles that you may have to the Lord. Not to me or anyone else on here. I gave all the things that were grieving me to the Lord. I have to tell you I feel soo much better. Take the time to do the same :thumb


    Quit making assinine assumptions about me and simply respond to the questions asked. You don't know anything about my teachings beyond the fact sometimes we agree to disagree.

    You keep tackling people instead of topics. That is the way liberals debate.
  9. Where does it say that? And if she is one of these "elect"' date=' why are you worried for her [i']soul?




    I dont know why I apologized for saying "Elect" earlier. I shouldnt have so quickly doubted myself. While I was at work I grabbed my Bible and happend to come across the verse concerning the Elect being deceived. Anyways here is where it is in the scripture


    Matthew 24:24 For there shall arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders; insomuch that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect.


    Phew I am so glad I am not twisting scripture, arent you?

    God bless,


    Lets all get along!!! That doesnt mean compromise either! :thumb
  10. Romans 16:17 Now I beseech you' date=' brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.[/quote']

    Ezra, kevin is not causing divisions or offenses. He is actually very clearly stating with Scripture what he believes. You are way out of line suppsing that he needs to be avoided for causing divisions.

    Perhaps this is a time where you should agree to disagree and let it go. As Christians, we don't all automatically agree on everything. You are going a bit overboard.
  11. We start at 9:30. My kids do better when they pick the order they want to do their lessons in. One likes to get her math out of the way...2 like to post-pone it until the end.

    My son has to stand next to me the entire time he is working and I have to give him time limits to get things done or he loses focus very quickly.

    It's very intense to get it done because we have errands and stuff that have to be done afterward...doctor appointments, grocery shopping, library trips, piano lessons...all after
    lunch. So it's important that we just get done. Tossing the baby in the mix complicates things. :bonK:

  12. My fridge is usually full of left overs - I clean it out once a week on Left-over day (we eat what ever is left), then refill it when I go shopping!

    I consider a full fridge and pantry a wonderful blessing from God! I can remember times in my life when there was nothing to eat except maybe a bit of ketchup to smear on a crust of bread. "Ketchup sandwiches" we called them...



    Never left overs in my house. The locust swarm devours all.
  13. Definitely. Especially the past couple years I've honestly (ok you said be honest) been tempted to ask a dr for a mild pill! Of course I know that will do no good and I wouldn't do it. Its just so hard with the kids to have time to have good devotions and prayer time (you may point out I am online alot but I can be online in small snatches between doing kids and for devotions you need an uninterrupted block of time, with which other chores and errands must compete) and with hormonal changes and such I find depression to be very easy to slip into.

    Even times I don't necessarily feel "Oh I'm depressed" if I take one of those online depression things I'll invariably check off quite a few symptoms. I honestly think, from talking to friends, it comes with the "mom of lots of little kids" territory.

    I have never been into such a deep depression, though, that an extra few hours of sleep or a small break didn't help with. I've found alot of depression is actually made worse by lack of sleep.



    I had ppd at least once which was very bad. I could hardly get out of bed in the mornings. I didn't take care of the kids like I should have. The house fell apart. God did a miracle through that one and helped me out.

    I went through a very hard time after a church split. People turned evil at that point. One of me fellow teachers started (or at least tried to start) a rumor that I left because I was having an affair with the a pastor. (It was an attempt to keep covering the real sin in the church which was a lot.) I didn't really want to leave my room at the time.

    The down times that I have now are not depression. I know what depression is. I had some very serious health issues a few years ago that the doctor tried to call "vegetative depression" but I knew I wasn't depressed because, well, I know what depression is.

    Being a mom and being busy make you tired and irritable at times. You miss those hours long devotion times you once had. But that is definitely not depression.
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