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  1. I have come to find out that it only seems to matter what the fathers race is .
    Hence why I have seen white skin blond hair ,blue eyes all apperances seems white yet their father was maybe American Indian or even black .They will be listed as either black or American Indian .
    Seems totally crazy but thats what I am told

  2. I hope no one here every has to deal with infertility or has a friend or family member have this problem .

    Its painfully clear that its still a taboo topic and that the people facing it will not get the support they need .
    They will instead be told that its "God's Will " or to be content etc ...

    Its like a death and people who have family die are surely not told to deal with it and get over it .

    Infertility = death the death of dreams and hopes

    I am sorry that those who have it are never understood and treated kindly but instead told how wrong they are

  3. I don't think the thoughts/beliefs against IVF are edifying right now. Many godly people differ on the topic of IVF and I think that you are completely ignoring the pain that is so apparant in LAF's posts. Some things are just better left unsaid.



    Thanks for posting this it is painful when others act like you should be fine like this .Yet I really wonder if they were in my shoes how they would truely act .


  4. LAF, I'm really sorry to hear about your family situation. I can't comment on the rights and wrongs of what John and Jerry have said, but I do want to quickly say one thing about people not caring. Unfortunately I don't think you will ever find the empathy and support you need on an internet forum such as this--it's just the impersonal nature of these things. Good for advice sometimes, bad for emotional support.

    For what it's worth, I'm thinking of you.



    Thank you I actually do frequent a board who does care more about such things .I wish people would learn to care about all people in these situations .Its very very hard for us who do have such problems .
  5. I belive God gave us doctors to help fix whats broken .If only I was wealthy I too would have done IVF .

    I know many a person who has children who doesn't deserve them .

    Adoption is actually even more costly than IVF .Its also more intrusive to do adoption because you have to deal with the government more .
    It easy for you to say these people "accepted " it .Only them and God know for sure .

    So a married couple who would love to have a baby but cannot God closed the womb .
    But the teenager who had a one night fling and gets pregnant God opened hers ?

    Oh well I can see another reason I dislike coming here because people don't really understand and care about all situations .

    I mean its fine and dandy when said teen gets pregnant lets welcome them and throw a shower for them .
    When married couple finds having a baby not so easy lets critize and tell them how they have to live with it and not offer any support .

  6. Of course this all comes back to sin. If we were following the Word of God only married women the Lord blessed with pregnancy would be having children.

    It's hard to tell from what I've read, but it kind of sounds as if this woman was obsessed with having children as a teen and was likely trying to get pregnant; which would at least partly explain why her mother was glad she couldn't get pregnant back then.



    Uh so even though I am married and we are both Christians God must not think much of us because we have never been "blessed " with a pregnancy .........
  7. 31 And when the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb: but Rachel was barren.

    Gen 29:31 (KJV)

    If God is the one who opens and or closes the womb, and that seems to be the case, them no child of God ought to use IVF.

    Of course this young woman care no one thing about God nor God's way, if she did she would be married with children not unmarried with children.

    She is completely rebelling against God and walking in the ways of her father, the old devil.



    Easy for you to write out .I doubt very much you know anyone dealing with infertility or why else would you be so uncaring in your comment .
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